I thought they were joking till I realized they blocked me. Come on Tumblr, people can mention me while they have me blocked so I can’t respond?
Seriously now, unfollowing me and blocking me, because you found out just then that I was “secretly” born (without any choice) as a white cis heterosexual male? Do you not see the irony in this? You know, how I fight against people that get upset when they find out someone is Trans or homosexual and say they feel tricked?
I get people saying “you can’t say that just because you have a Trans friend and Trans followers that you aren’t transphobic” and I get that what people often say as a defense, but in this case I have tons of Trans friends that agree with me, I was in the college LGBTQ until I was told I was making others uncomfortable because I couldn’t relate or share any stories and people felt like they couldn’t vent or speak openly with me, a white Cis heterosexual guy there. I am friends with someone who does surgery on people to help them transition, who themselves has a really sad story about having to hide who they were in medical school. I go to the local protests. I vote for the representatives that are trying to pass laws helping to protect Trans people. I have tons of Trans people saying they don’t have any problem with my posts. The only ways I could be possibly closer is if I was in a relationship with a Trans woman, but I’m already with someone else and I’m not going to dump the person I love because they don’t meet a diversity requirement.
There is nothing more that I can do to prove I am not transphobic. My posts aren’t transphobic. I got most of my medical terminology about gender, physical sex, and biological sex from a lesson from my Trans surgeon friend I mentioned before. I honestly don’t know what more you want, I can’t handle the medical field so sadly I cannot do what my friend can, the most I was able to learn from them is a little massage therapy and emergency surgery and self surgery. I cannot reset and change and make myself Trans. I didn’t get a character select screen to select which sperm and egg combining I would be, I didn’t get to roll my stats. There’s no class select. That’s the whole reason why Trans people exist, you can’t click a button and choose or change. You can’t help who you are born as. I have done everything I reasonably can.
I don’t know what to do, next I’ll get messages saying the only way to atone for my white privilege is to have a Boltonesque ritual where my skin is flayed off in a single sheet while still alive, like the Mayans did. Maybe I’ll be handed a sewing needle, a pocket knife, a spool of dental floss, and a bottle of whiskey and be forced to do self “sex change” surgery? I physically cannot experience what it’s like to be Trans or homosexual or not white or as a female , I was born as the political powered majority, sorry for disappointing you.
If you happen to be rich and can fly out to meet me, I’ll give you a hug, I don’t know what more I can do to show the doubters that I’m not transphobic, my posts aren’t transphobic, and I never will intentionally be transphobic.





